I think we're living in a world of utter materialism, so men and women treat each other like mere objects. Promiscuous men and women spend most of their teens and twenties conditioning themselves and others into being viewed and used as objects for orgasms via pornography and hook up culture. Then people wonder why divorce rates are so high, loneliness abounds, there's no fidelity, no intimacy, no appreciation nor cherishment in relationships, suicide rates are increasing, etc. We have large numbers of individuals who believe they're mere animals, God is dead, and the self is the center of the universe--which sets the stage for a society glorifying "body counts", devaluing humanity, and everything is a shallow means of gratifying the self. Any man or woman out there treating their body like a temple, sex as something precious and supernaturally valuable--if you find such a someone, they are like a diamond amongst a sea of sexual debris/broken down people.

Very interesting and thoughtful take.

If I’m dating the girl, I don’t mind.

If I’m marrying her, then absolutely I mind.

That makes sense.

Found out All hoez even if virgin

haha
from my own personal experience a "virgin" or someone thats close to being one is more likely to cheat
the person with the high body count is more likely to know what she wants and not cheat
the person who doesn't have much experience is more likely to say yes and see what else is out there

definitely just depends on the person though either way and their morals

This was a standard question when starting to get serious with someone when I was younger and weighed heavily on if I wanted to continue the relationship. Then I grew up.

My wife now I could care less and never even asked. We married when we were both in our early 30's so of course we both have history.

On our 14th year of marriage and could not be happier.

This post was edited by paxxoid on Nov 17 2022 03:42pm

What the heck are you even saying?
Got any real logic other than delusions?
Anything to back up your claims? Any references to a poll of sociological findings and correlations to human instincts to create a hypothesis?

my current gf is the most loving, trusting, honest, caring person I have ever met
her body count is pretty high, her morals would never allow her to cheat
so from personal experience, body count is irrelevant in my case. I know completely she would never do anything to break my trust
Ive been cheated on by woman who has less than 5, from my own personal experience ( everyone is different ) body count doesn't make the type of person you are
I trust my gf with my life. My last relationship was 9 years, she cheated on me with 5 different people. This is the first woman I've ever been with I ACTUALLY want to marry and trust completely and will spend the rest of my life with
Like I said, everyone is different.
Im sorry you feel that way
Sex doesn't make you a bad person.

I've been with both men and woman, most of the time the man who cares about body count is hung up on his insecurities
he worries "that man was bigger" or "blah blah blah". Being with men has showed me that its COMPLETELY irrelevant
I have zero insecurity. Im in the happiest relationship of my life with a beautiful, wonderful, trustworthy woman
Her actions have shown me she too good hearted to ever cheat, she simply would never do it, and I'd never do it to her, and my body count is high high

Im sorry you have been hurt in the past, we all have, but sex is the last thing that should determine someones morals.
You ever stop to think maybe its not the woman who's the problem, but the men shes been with? Fuck boys who have no morals and no respect?
A woman's body count has entirely too many variables to be concerned about it
You have to look at the person they are, how they were raised, their morals. Maybe the faithful girl with a high body count has been cheated on by every guy shes ever been with?

You simply just can't judge someone from having sex, we as humans are here to procreate. We are literally here to multiply and have sex, its our purpose.
Social media has brainwashed people into caring about something so trivial and ignoring what really matters

But like I said, this is all from personal experience , and everyones path is different. My truth won't be someone else's and vice versa
You're allowed to have whatever beliefs and standards you chose, we all are.
I don't know why my beliefs upset you so much. Or you think im "delusional" because I walked a different path in life than you
I've been with too many people to count, men and woman, and I like to think I'm a decent human being with good morals and standards
If I can do it, so can woman

This post was edited by Loipisdead on Nov 18 2022 07:55am

Your win in love isn’t the reality for all. I’m happy for you both, people can change, but I think there’s a reason for the perspective that if you sleep around easily single that you’ll want that attached, too.

This post was edited by Ryvulet on Nov 18 2022 07:56am