Quote (Ryvulet @ Aug 5 2022 01:01pm)
I'm kinda wondering why you think that makes people 'insecure' just because they have a preference. There are specific mindsets that people have depending on whether they seek out partners regularly or not.
I also don't want to be that guy, but if you are okay with woman sleeping around a lot.. (I'm not okay with any1 doing it, I personally don't) Maybe it is cuz you feel the need to have that amendment in your relationships in order to find one?
I just feel its a double standard caused by mens insecurities
A man sleeps with 20 woman, hes fine, normal dude, just enjoy sex
A woman sleeps with 20 men shes a slut and not "wife" material
I suppose you could look at it as a preference, you want an inexperienced woman, thats fine
I just don't think the double standard is ok
men are too worried about trivial things such as "size"
they get extremely insecure about it, and their brains automatically go to "was he bigger than me"