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Aug 5 2022 11:20am
Quote (Ryvulet @ Aug 5 2022 01:01pm)
I'm kinda wondering why you think that makes people 'insecure' just because they have a preference. There are specific mindsets that people have depending on whether they seek out partners regularly or not.
I also don't want to be that guy, but if you are okay with woman sleeping around a lot.. (I'm not okay with any1 doing it, I personally don't) Maybe it is cuz you feel the need to have that amendment in your relationships in order to find one?

I just feel its a double standard caused by mens insecurities
A man sleeps with 20 woman, hes fine, normal dude, just enjoy sex
A woman sleeps with 20 men shes a slut and not "wife" material
I suppose you could look at it as a preference, you want an inexperienced woman, thats fine
I just don't think the double standard is ok
men are too worried about trivial things such as "size"
they get extremely insecure about it, and their brains automatically go to "was he bigger than me"
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Quote (Loipisdead @ 5 Aug 2022 13:20)
I just feel its a double standard caused by mens insecurities
A man sleeps with 20 woman, hes fine, normal dude, just enjoy sex
A woman sleeps with 20 men shes a slut and not "wife" material
I suppose you could look at it as a preference, you want an inexperienced woman, thats fine
I just don't think the double standard is ok
men are too worried about trivial things such as "size"
they get extremely insecure about it, and their brains automatically go to "was he bigger than me"


Honestly, not very many people think that men sleeping with 20 woman is a good thing. Girls sure don't. The girls that generally think its okay sleep with lots of men or whoever they want, as well. Same with men thinking its okay with men sleeping with lots of woman. They are the same breed. It is like smoking versus not smoking. Lots of people who don't smoke hate smoking and potentially even smokers. But a lot of smokers don't get it.
Also, size is a huge issue if you are small. I'm not, about average, so its no big deal. But if some1 is small they'd definitely feel insecure about satisfying a woman who has experienced larger.

This is pretty simple to logic out, imo. My guess is you never thought of it from my perspective? Is there any projection?

This post was edited by Ryvulet on Aug 5 2022 11:23am
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Sep 30 2022 06:24am
I think I clearly got lost on jsp. O.O

This post was edited by KelseyHiltz on Sep 30 2022 06:24am
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Quote (KelseyHiltz @ Sep 30 2022 08:24am)
I think I clearly got lost on jsp. O.O



haha :banana:
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Sep 30 2022 08:49am
I think when she has had a lot of partners, she has lost the ability to pair bond.
Also she has shown an inability or want to pick long term partners, so why would I think she would change into a long term partner for me?
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Sep 30 2022 01:39pm
as a fagu, it bothers me not one bit.
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Sep 30 2022 01:50pm
My wife's body count is triple mine... this is why she's my wife, I'm proud of her for being an over achiever. When you reflect on life and look at your achievements, I'm sure this will be on her list.
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Oct 20 2022 01:30pm
A promiscuous woman or man is someone to be avoided, they're often broken people with many spiritual/psychological issues and are altogether toxic for relationships and society at large.
Sex is beautiful and sacred inside of marriage - anything else is reckless self-gratification/fornication and contributes to the myriad of issues we see in society: p0rn, adultery, rape, broken families, broken homes, prostitution, STD's, death, abortion, etc.
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Oct 21 2022 01:59pm
Yes.


I subscribe to some "Traditional" Views on intimate relationships and matrimony.


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Quote (WizardKiller @ Oct 20 2022 12:30pm)
A promiscuous woman or man is someone to be avoided, they're often broken people with many spiritual/psychological issues and are altogether toxic for relationships and society at large.


I generally agree, although a promiscuous woman is worse than a promiscuous man. And I am not being sexist--Im a woman myself. It's just so plain to see, a woman's reproductive goals are not served by sleeping with many men. When a woman does sleep with many men, she is simply a slut. And if this a double-standard, so be it. Men and women are physically different, so their behaviors are treated differently. Deal with it, sluts.

It is definitely very abnormal for a woman to be slutty like that. As a normal woman myself, I have to say that having my womb blasted with various streams of semen is very gross. I honestly don't understand why a woman would want to sleep around. If she wants orgasms, she could just do crack. It's probably a better high.

This post was edited by JessiWan on Oct 22 2022 08:26pm
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