My two colleagues
The first one i will call Waldo.
Waldo is a talebarer.
He eats lunch everyday with Gerald.
On the surface they seem like good friends.
But when Gerald wasn't around, Waldo undermined him by saying "he's working way too much, he keeps making mistakes"
Now, what Waldo said may have been true, but there was no reason to talk about Gerald like that in the open.
Waldo is a tale barer. At any opportunity he will undermine anyone, even those who appear to be his best friends. He usually does this when that person isn't around.
Why does he do this? Insecurity? Pride? The desire to be the top? A jealous spirit?
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Gerald on the other hand... He cannot be trusted. He has a history of sharing screenshots of private conversations with a larger group chat. And he has also done this to me.
Gerald also videotapes people without their consent. He videotaped one of our colleagues as she was complaining. She didn't know she was being filmed.
Gerald also smokes a lot of weed. And he probably pops pills too. His eyes are gone and react sluggishly to light. He has a lag before he responds to any question or conversation.
Gerald is involved with sorceries and he doesn't even know it.
His greatest strength that he has acquired from his weed is a certain numbness, fearlessness, and lack of inhibitions. It gives him great audacity to do things that other people wouldn't. This makes Gerald extremely dangerous under certain circumstances.
Both are misguided but happen to be friends.
Waldo is unloyal. He is selfish. Immature. Childish. And he always needs to be number one, the center of attention. In order to maintain what he believes is dominance, he must continue to belittle others, and undermine everyone around him.
Common element between Gerald and Waldo. They both probably use drugs. They both probably are deeply entrenched in pornography and fornication and lust.
Waldo has an issue with betting and gambling with sports and stocks.
Between the two, Waldo seems to be the more dominant one.
But Gerald seems to be the more dangerous one because he lacks inhibition. He can easily overdose and make mistakes.
They both, together can help each other. But they need to be kind to each other.