Quote (JessiWan @ Oct 30 2021 12:38am)
He didn't say men can all be grouped into the binary of alpha versus beta. He used the term "beta" to mean spending limited resources to raise someone else' offspring is an evolutionarily non-adaptive behavior. Some call it "low value". Some call it beta. They all mean the same thing. It's something that's detrimental to you and your blood-line.
Of course, I realize that life is more than about passing on one's genes and having babies. However, please do not think that you are more enlightened, or somehow morally superior, just because you are willing to date a mom. Some men will laugh at you behind your back, and it's simply something you will have to contend with.
Our whole society and very way of living worldwide hinges on non-adaptive behaviour. It's what being civilized has come down to. We only just begun to unravel the neurology, the psychiatry and the biology of decision-making in human beings and "free will", if you will, isn't that big of a thing as people make it out to be. That being said, you link "low value" with "beta''. This is only true for species with a dominance hierarchy, which human race is not. You are fundamentally wrong there, there's nothing else I can tell you about that other than go read your fifth grade biology book.
Your post is full of assumptions about me, literally none of which are true except for one that I cannot say is true or untrue (whether or not I would date a mother myself) because I have not been in that situation.
So please understand that the tone of my writing is indeed hostile, and I want you to know that I took offense in your post.
/e Some men will laugh at you behind your back, always, everywhere, in any given context. That's life. If you still care about those guys in the corner pointing at you, you have a lot of personal demons to battle still. Good luck with them.
This post was edited by Leeevee on Oct 30 2021 04:25am