raising someone elses kids is a total joke. having kids in general is a toss up i would only raise my own cseed.

Voted no.

I've had my expirience with a "single" mom 3 years ago.
Putting asside the fact that she was a dreadful person which mostly used me as an ATM mashine, the main reason why things oftenly don't work out is the weird relationship between her and the ex. Quite rarely they have a stable connection, where they both think just about the happiness of the kid and put their jelausy aside..
I had to fight twice with the scumbag in order to convince him he needs to leave us live our lives.
The girl had 2 kids and they both loved me, because I'm great with kids, but at the end I'm still not their father and I've had the feeling they thought I was the reason their parents aren't together the entire time we were together.

Unless you already have very strong feelings for this girl I suggest you to move along and find yourself a girl that wont get you into unneccessary drama.

Damn this post hit me in the feels

I could write a book about it.

Fuck yes it’s a deal breaker. Are you kidding me? In USA the average cost to raise a child probably from birth until 18 is near $200k. The child isn’t your responsibility, it’s another mans child. Being a stepfather is the ultimate form of being a SIMP.

Only if the woman is a multi millionaire.

This or when the kid is grown up and not living at her house

Nail on the head imo

What if she needs money and asks you to raise her kid and pay for stuff? Is that a deal break then?