Quote (Scaly @ Apr 19 2018 11:07am)
I disagree. In my experience men take marriage pretty seriously.
That's why 'no big secret', i.e 'your personal experience', doesn't mean shit in this kind of conversation. You don't speak for all men bud. You have a finite, tiny, portion to pull opinions from. Admittedly in the internet age that personal bubble is larger but as has been discussed before can also be even more homogenous creating skewed views of the opinions of the public at large.
Quote (Scaly @ Apr 19 2018 11:15am)
Possibly a certain kind of woman... But we humans are a diverse species and I'm pretty sure we're moving out of the 'women are home and baby makers' phase of social structure.
My lived experience tells me the opposite but I'm aware that personal experience doesn't necessarily represent larger demographics. So... Hard data beats what you feel is true.
"you're wrong because you don't have date, just your personal experience, which is different than my personal experience, so you're wrong."
you seem to be looking for an argument today bud. that men are less willing to be monogamous and are less into commitment/marriage is common knowledge. and is well backed by the hormonal differences between men and women. if you're looking for a good study check out the difference between men-men gay relationships and women-women relationships in terms of marriage, monogamy, and family starting. you'll find out some stuff that's really going to counter whatever tiny sample of beta men and skanks you apparently live in.