I can't blame him tbh

link to OF?

lol no sorry, the trolls on here would never let it go

I hope that you find happiness no matter your path in life. Just remember that what you do has effects on others. People don't always understand themselves.

Would you want your path in life to be the path of others who follow in your wake?

yeah sure why not? I think I'm doing ok. I have a house, car, and a job. I worship God. I help people out when I can and always try to do good. I just have a non-traditional marriage arrangement, but I still think it was better than divorce. Who knows maybe one day we can work shit out and quit seeing other people.

It's not going to end well,

Open Relationships never tend to work, especially when 1 side is not comfortable and it gets worse once the 2nd person actually finds someone else and decides to move on and start something fresh.

If you have kids, I'm pretty sure you can figure out a way, it won't be the first marriage or the last one where kids are going to be affected by it, but you also have to take into consideration your mental health as well, if you are not comfortable or happy with the way things are going, it's best to find a solution, you will most likely never trust him the way you did prior, and will always have doubts, I suggest you move on, there is always people out there that will make you happy.

It works good it’s fun just know your boundaries

Based

Been sdoing it 3 years. He met someone else a month ago. We’re getting divorced

as more time passes, the more I hate him......lol wish i could just find someone else too. still works for the moment tho