That sounds awful...good luck to you!

horrible idea.

idk much about open relationsships or poly or stuff like that but

talking about everything and beeing honest about everything should be rule#1

whatever goes through your mind. it should go straight to your partner


here in a forum you only get ideas in your head that aren't yours and you won't be yourself for decision making.

Just my 2cents here and it's been said before I believe. If your not happy nor he is, you both need to find something else. I get your both together for the kids (if I'm right) but this won't help shit they just gonna watch and learn from you both. If the poloy life style works for you this fine it's great just need now to find other people who shares same values. The anger and hate will only get wrose and wrose as time goes on. People grow apart is apart of life accept that is what happened here both say your good byes and move on but now you know alot more about yourself and what make you happy


/E good luck with everything I hope all works out for the best what ever what that may be.

This post was edited by CrazyIz on Jul 20 2023 07:17am

Is your marriage okey?

it has its moments.....

Will this make your moments better together with your husband?

Some of them. It's better when we play together vs separate. Overall were doing much better. except he now has a local GF and I have a long-distance BF. I think its ok tho...gives us someone to vent to and a consistent side partner.


Edit: for him anyway. i haven't actually got to meet mine yet but we video chat a lot. still i feel jipped so Im looking for a GF for myself that lives close by.

This post was edited by Xiu on Aug 21 2023 11:00am

I have been in polyamorous situation, but that lead to divorce in my case. Just be open and honest to yourself and to each other.

thanks