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Sep 25 2022 03:59pm
Anyone here try this our? How did it work out for you?

Asking cuz that is what my husband wants now, and idk how I feel about it but some strange sounds good.
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Sep 27 2022 10:00am
Quote (Xiu @ Sep 25 2022 05:59pm)
Anyone here try this our? How did it work out for you?

Asking cuz that is what my husband wants now, and idk how I feel about it but some strange sounds good.


If you're a freak then do what freaks do.
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Sep 27 2022 09:37pm
He’s probably already acting as if it is one
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Quote (Ryvulet @ Sep 27 2022 11:37pm)
He’s probably already acting as if it is one


This honestly.

If he's asking about it, its because he had another person in mind.
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Sep 30 2022 10:42am
Basically asking you if you want to stick around while he cheats.

But you can go ahead and cheat too.



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Sep 30 2022 11:39am
I've never understood them myself. I think when you feel the need to invite a third party into a marriage it's never a good sign.
From what I've seen they don't seem to end well, but maybe you'll be the exception if you choose to proceed (please don't be pressured by him though). Best of luck!

This post was edited by Porce on Sep 30 2022 11:42am
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Sep 30 2022 01:46pm
not really for or against but in all actuality probably what id end up with.

ive only dated bisexuals, while im good at what i do i dont have the same equipment.

as long as everyones honest about it and everyone has a good time, i dont see the problem.
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Sep 30 2022 01:54pm
Sounds like you've both been thinking about it. Get freaky, yolo
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Quote (BOOTYS @ Sep 30 2022 12:42pm)
Basically asking you if you want to stick around while he cheats.

But you can go ahead and cheat too.


yeah basically.

Quote (Porce @ Sep 30 2022 01:39pm)
I've never understood them myself. I think when you feel the need to invite a third party into a marriage it's never a good sign.
From what I've seen they don't seem to end well, but maybe you'll be the exception if you choose to proceed (please don't be pressured by him though). Best of luck!


thank you for your honest opinion and encouraging words.

Quote (Ryvulet @ Sep 27 2022 11:37pm)
He’s probably already acting as if it is one


yeah, I caught him up in a lie and it started a divorce talk that ended with this resolution. I don't think he had a particular girl in mind but just wanted more sex and attention from me.

He claims that if I let him go on dates then he will find us a girlfriend and we can end the search for more people. He has had 3 different coffee dates with bi women. Said he might sleep with one of them before introducing me to her to see if he wants to.
He is not bi. He also said I could hunt for men as long as they would be ok with him watching. I had one date that stood me up so far.

We also got freaky with a m/f couple to start this whole thing off. It was very awkward.

On a side note, besides that one couple I don't think he has gotten freaky with his dates in person. All the attention has made us both really hot and have been spending way more time with each other and he quit talking about divorce. I'm just nervous that he is
going to find a girl and want to keep her and I'm not going to like her.

background info: we have 3 kids and have been married for 11 years.
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Oct 1 2022 06:11am
Eh, power ti y’all. But to me, if you are so boring that sex is your only enjoyment in life, so much so that you go out of your way for more people.. you gotta be pretty boring.
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