Quote (BOOTYS @ Sep 30 2022 12:42pm)
Basically asking you if you want to stick around while he cheats.
But you can go ahead and cheat too.
yeah basically.
Quote (Porce @ Sep 30 2022 01:39pm)
I've never understood them myself. I think when you feel the need to invite a third party into a marriage it's never a good sign.
From what I've seen they don't seem to end well, but maybe you'll be the exception if you choose to proceed (please don't be pressured by him though). Best of luck!
thank you for your honest opinion and encouraging words.
Quote (Ryvulet @ Sep 27 2022 11:37pm)
He’s probably already acting as if it is one
yeah, I caught him up in a lie and it started a divorce talk that ended with this resolution. I don't think he had a particular girl in mind but just wanted more sex and attention from me.
He claims that if I let him go on dates then he will find us a girlfriend and we can end the search for more people. He has had 3 different coffee dates with bi women. Said he might sleep with one of them before introducing me to her to see if he wants to.
He is not bi. He also said I could hunt for men as long as they would be ok with him watching. I had one date that stood me up so far.
We also got freaky with a m/f couple to start this whole thing off. It was very awkward.
On a side note, besides that one couple I don't think he has gotten freaky with his dates in person. All the attention has made us both really hot and have been spending way more time with each other and he quit talking about divorce. I'm just nervous that he is
going to find a girl and want to keep her and I'm not going to like her.
background info: we have 3 kids and have been married for 11 years.