Quote (Taurean @ Dec 23 2022 09:08am)
What's the point of being married if one isn't going to act like it? It's pointless, and it feels more like immaturity at best, or that the love is dying, at worst. It really just proves that marriage does not make any difference in the relationship other than the legal bs, which only cost time and makes things more difficult. I.e. causes more stress. Love is love. A few preachy words from a priest and a ring on the finger isn't going to make any difference. It is the personality and the vow to stay true that matters. And that must be there from day 1 for it to work. And if it doesn't work out anymore, the love is gone and it's better to split apart than live a lie for a lifetime. Or at least one can remain friends if that works out for both.
we're still friends. Even if we split were still friends. Through all the ups and downs he is still my ride or die. I just have more options now without having to cheat. He let me get a boyfriend and start an onlyfans. Neither of them care if I branch out further, so long as I give them the attention they deserve.