Quote (SBD @ 5 Mar 2024 11:29)
Yeah two. Both girls were supposedly on the pill and obviously they either were not regular enough with it or something else went sideways.
I was 18 and 19. No future prospects and this point, same for her. We didn't even like each other in either case for the most part. Shorter fligns. It easily would have been a child born into seperation, zero financial stability, and overall disastrous. No parental support systems either since both sides were heavily blue collar and not well off blue collar.
Fast-forward 15 years I had the opperinity to develops out a career pushing 7 figure net worth before 30, have a wife I've now been with for 10 years who has also developed out a successful career and we can raise our kids with all the opportunities in the world
Zero regrets and those women want on to find husbands and seem pretty happy now I think.
Seems things worked out excellently for all. Sure you can say it didn't for the unborn child but you won't make any headway with that argument since clearly I'm not remotely swayed by that camp.
Quote (crosspawz @ 5 Mar 2024 11:10)
“You should never be in a situation where you have to abort an unborn child”
And yet people are, crazy!
So you proved my point.
You were having unprotected sex(you weren't wearing a condom) and you assumed the "pill" was 99% effective and we all know that's FALSE. Your girl could be on the pill and you not wear a condom and if you have sex 100 times guess what bud your a dad but like you said you weren't ready to be a dad etc. etc.
You still aborted two lives I wasn't talking about "success stories" after the fact. A lot of the woman I know who had abortions are just "fine" too. Life goes on but it doesn't change the fact. I don't think people who have abortions are bad people or that they aren't making the best decision they can make at the time what I'm saying is it's still murder even if you sugar coat it with bullshit.
I believe each soul is potentially divine and that's why I consider it a great sin to not raise any progeny you manifest. Out of the hundreds of millions of aborted souls many would have become immensely successful, kind, caring, creative individuals but that right was stolen from them. I'm not remotely swayed by the "excuses" camp.