so i basically want 120 dex eventually

and i was armour weapon adn both charms to just have alot of EE? a d the strength where i can get it? is that right?

weapon ee is the only one that gives you damage. the ee on your armor gives you more defense and the ee on the charms only give magic damage/more heal power.

basically you want: high ee weapon and dex/str charms and armor. the acc charm doesnt add to your stats so you dont need to worry about it

you can reach the 120 dex by directly stating the points into it and put the rest into strength
or getting the dex from items and put all or most of the points into strength.

this depends on which items you currently have or can buy.

life steal gear is very nice as well, so if you got the chance/funds to buy this gear, you should aim for
an ( heavy) armor with life steal or a charm in your setup. 7+ is a good rate.

the other item can contain massive stat points then depending on which way you stat ( dex only or strength )

the 2. charm ( accessory charm ) will not give you any stat bonus except ee. ( this ee will increase the healing rate, not your weapon damage )
you can use it as an additional mule slot or put a heal charm into it. it will just operate at 75%, but this can help you during combats or fasten your regening periods.

just summon a level 1 monster and heal yourself and leave again with a lot life recovered already.


you will certainly find some more inspiration in these guides:

• Melee general
  Thinking Of Melee? by JayKwik
  Myaddiction's Melee Guide (v1.07) by MyAddiction
  New Melee Build Guide by xshanksx
  
  
• Melee character guides:
  L. J.'s Deluxe Melee Guide for LadderSlasher by MaryJuana
  Cheap Melee Rogue Guide by OoOpeterOoO
  The Fighter Guide by M4nze
  The Barbarian - The Starters Guide by pikustan

thanskt that is alot fo help