Ebotd Great Poleaxe is probably your best best. Giant Thresher is also good, but less damage.
GT is at 4/3/3/3/6 Fury with 8 more ias at lvl 38 werewolf, so bfists or highlords.
GPA is at 5/3/3/3/6 with the same ias, or 4/3/3/3/6 with 35 oias (highlords and ed/15ias jewel pelt)
Other than that... the most important things to learn for pubbing:
1) How to use the shift key
2) Where your weapon ranges are and what angles hit the farthest (range 6 is the maximum vs players)* - I like to run down and slightly off angle left vs hammerdins for example, or shift them from exactly side to side.
https://www.diabloii.net/gallery/data/541/Range.png3) Reshifting as many times as possible at 1 hp.
I'm of the personal opinion that battle orders don't matter that much in pubs for shapeshifters. Gear 1 is Grief and Stormshield, Gear 2 is two handed max range weapon. Just use W (or whatever key, I have always set it to X) to swap back and forth depending on who you are dueling. Treachery pre fade can be worth it. 1 point in summons can also be worth it to distract chargers or FoH or traps.
I also have Feral Rage set to A and Fury set to B, and I charge up on summons and bone walls for faster run speeds.
You also want to have a physical damage reduced setup for wind druids and smiters... berber CoA or Shaft or something like that.
*Rangeadder 4 = range 6 vs players. Players are size 2 and Great Poleaxe is rangeadder 4.
ok so Ebotd GPA, What about charms? should i roll SS lifers ? im sure i should since i need to hit that 38 Werewolf bp correct?