Quote (Loipisdead @ Jul 17 2022 09:02pm)
Recently I saw video of a couple who were just married. the interviewer asked what their body counts were
the woman replied 9, the man she was with looked like his soul left his body
I do not understand how 9 is considered a high body count, I don't understand how body count even matters if you are both in a loving relationship. The past should be completely irrelevant.
My body count is in the high 60s-70s. If I actually sat down and tried to think of every single one I wouldn't be able to, Ive tried
My gfs body count is in the high 30s. Woman enjoy sex just as much as men do, men think they can sleep with whoever and however many people but shame a woman for doing the same
I understand both sides completely, being bi sexual and being with a handful of men made me realize its literally the same as being with a woman. its just sex. and it doesn't matter.
So , jsp, would you shame a woman for having a high body count? and if so, why?
Her past should be completely irrelevant to you as long as shes faithful to YOU while shes with you.
A woman sleeping with 30,40,50+ men has zero impact on me, it kinda blew my mind that the "men" in these videos got so butthurt over the SMALLLLLEST number
To me it shows how insecure men are, men can sleep with whoever many people they want but when a woman does it shes considered trashy
It makes absolutely no sense
Sex is just sex, its something humans do for fun, to feel good, and many other reasons.
Shaming a woman for enjoying sex just shows how insecure of a "man" you are in my opinion
I tried to post this in a way it would be an appropriate topic for the love line forum, if Ive overstepped any boundaries or rules please just close the thread and let me know. Im not here to get in trouble or offend. Im legit just curious why men get so upset about something so trivial
Mate, I have read the entirety of this thread and it hurts me to see how little you understand of the subject. You are clearly not educated in any social or medical field, which is completely fine.
If you ask for people's affirmation that your attitude is "the right one", which this thread is clearly an appeal for, at least take the people's answer as feedback. Do with it what you will, but you're just telling everybody they're dead wrong and you're right.
I seriously, deeply, strongly implore you to read this book by Bessel van der Kolk, a man who busied himself with writing and rewriting the DSM (Diagnostic and Statistical Manual for Mental Disorders).
The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma
You clearly seek answers for questions that busy you on the subject of intimacy and I feel you have a long way to go before opening up to what other people might answer.
I hope you find whatever you're looking for, mister.