Quote (w0sK @ May 30 2021 10:48pm)
Hey guys,
So I've been dating this girl for 2.5 years and we've been living together most of this time. We're 35 and 34 years old.
She's a great person, someone I can always rely on, she's smart and funny.. the only thing thats wrong with her is that she doesn't want to have much sex.. and when I say "much sex" I mean like once a week, twice tops... she's a bit neurotic and feels constantly under pressure from her job and "social obligations"...
I've spoke about it with her a bunch of times and how it makes me feel like I'm not desirable enough for her and how one way or another it's going to ruin our relationship, but it went nowhere.. she was very upset and for a while I could see her pushing herself to have more frequant intimate moments, but after a while things went back to normal and I go back to doing it myself.. which feels humiliaring to me.. it's only my second long-term relationship and the first one was with a horrible person, but at least the sex was great..
Now I don't want to go and seek what i'm missing with another woman because I respect her that much, nor I want to break up with her because I love her and I feel like this is the person I want to spend my life with(it might feel weird to you guys that I say that for the second woman in my life, but I really mean it. Other than the sex thing she's really amazing, thats why I want to fix things), so I feel pretty much screwed if I don't find a solution to this problem.
Any help would be highly appreciated.
Thank you!
Honestly, after 35 - once a week is a pretty normal state of affairs as far as I know of.
Its good that you still want to have it more, but not everybody is going to have that level of sex drive - so you might just have to be a coomer for the other 6 days lmao. Most marriages I hear of are either sexless or a once a month type thing - just fucking brutal.