Quote (Underneath @ Sep 25 2019 12:12am)
Thanks for the input, but I need to clarify that I do those things for her because I WANT to because I love her. I would love to have a girl have that same desire as well, doing whatever for me because she wants to.
Also, I should have mentioned that she has school AND work (I only work 25 hrs a week but get paid full time), so she is a lot busier than I am, therefore it simply makes more sense for me to do most of the cooking. However, I'm saying on her days off where she doesn't have work and doesn't have much school work, she still needs me to help her, when it would be nice for her to do it on her own, since I always do it on my own as well. She's not manipulative haha, she simply has less time than I do. That's also why if I do break up with her, I'm not dating a girl that's still in school anymore, unless it's her last year in grad school.
Furthermore, I'm actually quite glad I moved in with her after only 1.5 years together. All the small things that we hate about each other surfaced, so I'm glad I figured those things out early rather than later where it would be even harder to break up with her because we woulda been together for more than our current 2.5 years. This way, it saves me wasted time, if I do end up deciding to break up with her.
You’re stuck with settling if the bolded thing here is true.