Went to korean restaurant 5 years ago with a korean girl from Japan on a date in Germany. Owner starts talking to the girl and me. Annoying but what can u do u dont wanna look jelly or angry on a date so I let it slide and acted nice and cool as a cucumber.

What happens they start speak korean and there is some small talk. Guy leaves. We eat. I put a big tip cause im with a wahmen. They start talking again. Cause we both tourists in germany he recommends us to visit some market nearby. She wants to go there so we go. We leave the restaurant.

My now exgf then said the restaurant owner told her not to date me because I was too young. Its true their was an age gap (she was a 35 y/o milf and I was 26) but I thought it was rude. What annoyed me even more is I left him a big tip and he still said that shit. However I realize I'm with a wahmen and I can't lose frame so I suck it up again.

On our way to the market we get lost. Then guess who shows up in his car? the korean restaurant owner. Oh my fucking god. Then I realized he was trying to cockblock me all along. Didn't know what to do but we were lost and she was getting cranky because we been walking a lot on a sunny day so we end up getting in the car. Omfg. He said he needed to go there to pick something up for his kids (but I think that was BS) anyway we arrive. Before we get out he gives my now exgf his business card and she happily accepted it. I was cooking inside of jealousy and needyness. Worst feeling ever. Holy fucking batman. This feels bad.

I lose composure. The entire time on the market haven't said anything. I lost it by being needy and asked her why she accepted his businesscard. Immediately I realize my mistake and tell her nah its okay but its already too late. We sit down in a pub for a cold beer and then she asked 'how many times we're going to have this conversation?! In an annoyed voice. We get back to the hotel, have sex and 5 days later she goes back to Japan. We decided not to continue it for other reasons (mostly logistics)

2 years later she msged me and we started dating again. This time she flew to The Netherlands and she stayed at my place. I joked and asked if the korean guy ever called her (I was actually serious though) She suprised and said she threw away the card right after she left germany. Then I realize my jellyness got the best out of me.

Still can't forget this guy who tried to cockblock me. Worst feeling ever. Never felt such intense jelly before. Omfg.

Because of this soul crushing experience I will never tip again.

The end.

This post was edited by Lasagnacat on Aug 19 2019 07:04pm

Ive never seen it put that way before, have you thought about becoming an author?

Tldr version: cause broke ass

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Thats awkward

Not sure if serious or not. Anyway it was very therapeutic writing this down so its alright

It was a horrible experience

The way you worded it was insightful and thoughtful, its like you put my mind to paper.

You reckon I could be the new J.D Salinger?

Catcher in The Lasagna

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