Quote (dizzle19 @ Jun 25 2019 05:24pm)
She wants break up because she says I make her feel like shit.
Heres why she thinks this. She will constantly argue, she doesnt communicate. She just complains without a purpose. So when I say "you literally dont communicate or complain". Or "you dont talk to me" etc. She takes it as me talking down to her?
No, I just want her to get the idea that she needs to communicate. Im not saying im right either.
So how do I fix this? how do we come to a solution on how to communicate better for this. How do I approach her better without it seeming like im talking down to her?
Were gonna meet tonight after im off to discuss basically what wee need to work on and how were gonna do it..
I dont really know what im asking here... Any advice or tips?
Personally have been through similar situation, unfortunately you can’t force people to communicate.
My ex and I have several serious sit downs and she out of her own mouth stated she was terrible with communication, and was not capable of it.
It’s a rough path but it seemed what I always turned to telling her was that in order for us both to understand and both to work through things, we had to have a line of communication not just a straight fight. Things are not worth the fights and can be usually fully avoided through communicating/talking things out.
Hope this helps some buddy.