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Jun 20 2019 05:20pm
Dont be too clingy about it. Shes obviously neutral about it so just give it a little time and then follow up with one more date idea “ do you want to do xx this weekend? “ i usually wait a week and a half after a first date

Also did you make out yet? If you dont by the third date then chances are shes not into it.
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My friend Haxorz has written quite a few books on the topic.

He is very friendly and willing to help, just send him a pm.

https://forums.d2jsp.org/user.php?i=712247

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I understand. Just be okay!
Maybe she would be having some personal issue because of which she must have been busy. Give her time she would definitely contact you. ;)
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Sep 20 2019 11:06pm
Iso ss of your texts you sent after first date
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Quote (Sexyama @ Sep 21 2019 07:06am)
Iso ss of your texts you sent after first date


Probably some clingy cringe thats why she never wanted a second date
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Quote (Bellamy @ Sep 21 2019 07:26pm)
Probably some clingy cringe thats why she never wanted a second date


Ya sounds like that, got too full on too quick
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Oct 17 2019 08:09pm
>don't show so much interest so early, its only a first date
>if she flakes on you, don't chase her so much, try to set something up next week. if she makes excuses again tell her you'll hit her up when she fixes her schedule
>a lot of women pretend to be interested with everyone and then just ghost the people they aren't interested in, patterns of dishonesty

Quote (Saltburn @ Jun 18 2019 11:35pm)
If she's really a flight attendant then she's being 100 thousand% honest about her schedule. Assuming she's a reserve flight attendant, schedules for the next month are typically distributed during the last week of the current month. She would only be able to see when her days off are but even those days could change. Then there are other little factors to consider such as being exhausted from flying. It might be also just simply be her not wanting to plan a day without for sure knowing if she can commit to it yet. BASICALLY, BEING ON RESERVE IS A HUGE PAIN.





Holding hands should be a for sure thing :blink:

I would definitely say though, I would think she'd have time to at least text you but I would try to be patient a little longer and see what happens.


If this was true, she would offer to reschedule
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Oct 17 2019 08:34pm
Quote (EndlessSky @ Oct 17 2019 07:09pm)
>don't show so much interest so early, its only a first date
>if she flakes on you, don't chase her so much, try to set something up next week. if she makes excuses again tell her you'll hit her up when she fixes her schedule
>a lot of women pretend to be interested with everyone and then just ghost the people they aren't interested in, patterns of dishonesty



If this was true, she would offer to reschedule


Rescheduling is always an option but could potentially lead to rescheduling over and over and over which results in looking flaky anyway. Some people have no problem doing that but others might feel guilty about it.

Based on her job it's probably easier for her to know if she's free the day of but that might not be easier for him... then there's the whole weekend thing- weekends are hard to get off when you're flying reserve
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Oct 17 2019 09:21pm
Quote (Saltburn @ Oct 17 2019 10:34pm)
Rescheduling is always an option but could potentially lead to rescheduling over and over and over which results in looking flaky anyway. Some people have no problem doing that but others might feel guilty about it.

Based on her job it's probably easier for her to know if she's free the day of but that might not be easier for him... then there's the whole weekend thing- weekends are hard to get off when you're flying reserve


Yea nah

Women will bend over backwards if they're into a dude
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Oct 21 2019 06:57pm
Anyway as I said flight attendant life + scheduling isn’t always easy cuz their schedules change a lot but she’d definitely have time to text at the least. And if she was cool holding your hand and stuff that’s a strong sign so idk man lol she sounds confusing
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