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May 26 2019 09:56am
Quote (dude_927 @ 26 May 2019 10:39)
I tried my hardest to make a man friend, failed, started hitting on fat girls to get my self esteem back, currently failing.



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May 26 2019 10:21am
Quote (IchBinDaddy @ May 26 2019 10:26am)
One of the girls I met on tinder introduced me to my current wife.
Oh yeah. Getting healthier and feeling better in my own body changed a lot, too.
I kind of lost touch with myself after being with the ex for so long, and being the age that I was. Still wasn’t sure of who I was exactly, because I always just had her to depend on kind of.
I suggest NOT playing any games for a while.
Run, bike, go to the gym, read about positivity, play and write music if you can, etc.
Work on yourself and have some girls to mess around with in a little bit.


I understand totally...it's your Dependant. You delete for them and they feel for you. Always, until something shit happens or you get that lucky one. Dude I wanted a family with this girl. I'm actually selling my games and shit tbh. So that's not a worry.
I think I made her lose me because of games and not listening and other shit. But as work she had things going on too that weren't healthy towards the relationship.
Idk man. I am feeling how you did before. Super fucking lost.
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May 26 2019 10:48am
Obviously no one feels good lol

Most people are intelligent enough to not starve themselves though
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May 26 2019 10:51am
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I understand totally...it's your Dependant. You delete for them and they feel for you. Always, until something shit happens or you get that lucky one. Dude I wanted a family with this girl. I'm actually selling my games and shit tbh. So that's not a worry.
I think I made her lose me because of games and not listening and other shit. But as work she had things going on too that weren't healthy towards the relationship.
Idk man. I am feeling how you did before. Super fucking lost.



I felt like I lost her for the same reasons, too.
But it really has nothing to do with you.
Sometimes people grow apart and she might not have had the distractions to subtle it out. Like I had with games and other things.
Too much gaming is hurtful towards yourself and others but wouldn’t affect your significant other in that aspect, if it’s meant to be.
Sell your shit, take that money and put it in a gym membership or even save up to take a short trip to someplace you’ve never gone.
Find a tinder girl to come with you or something.
I took this picture on my second month being single. These are all Brazilian, Italian and Ukrainian.


Before, I was just hanging out with the gf and didn’t bother to experience any other cultures or just kind of go out in general haha.
Get out.
Take pictures.
Make memories.

This post was edited by IchBinDaddy on May 26 2019 10:52am
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Something like this I found only time is the end game answer. Distracting yourself from the difficult poor choices meanwhile will keep you eating and stuff.

I was about to text her, it's been 4 months now. Posted here instead.

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at least you prioritized your time to create, maintain and grow a healthy and successful relationship
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at least you prioritized your time to create, maintain and grow a healthy and successful relationship



You can go ahead and jump off a cliff, tbh.
Fucking multi

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You can go ahead and jump off a cliff, tbh.
Fucking multi


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May 27 2019 05:56am
Quote (killerrs2 @ 20 May 2019 21:33)
When they have been broken up with after 4.5 years...
This was my first serious relationship and yea.
I haven't eaten the past 5 days (I don't eat when I get upset or pissed off, sad, etc.

How do y'all deal with it?


I feel you Buddy! I had too a breakup after 4+ish years. It hurts like hell, but you will be good. :hug:
And don't be like me! Get back in the ring as soon as possible, don't wait for "full recovery" because it might take years. And a new GF might help with that too. :)
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