Quote (Thor123422 @ Jun 15 2020 12:19am)
You cut out a very important part of that sentence. Not very honest of you.
Sorry, it wasn't my intention, I skipped this sentence by accident while reading. You said "if that matters motions is not deterministic", well it does not exist a random movement, it is only random for us. The result I would have when playing a die would already be known to me if I knew all its spatial coordinates, speed, etc.
Quote (Thor123422 @ Jun 15 2020 12:19am)
Morality is not "god's advice on how to be happy". Literally no dictionary anywhere gives that as the definition. I'm pretty happy. I have a fulfilling job, a wife, 2 dogs, 2 cats, etc. Things are pretty good for me. I also don't go to church and spend a few hours a week arguing on the internet. So it seems like you can be happy without following God's advice.
You shouldn't read a dictionary expecting to read a philosophy book. Good for you, man... I would still have a feeling of emptiness despite these good things. Well, I don't wanna make you expose your personal life here, but couldn't that depression you just mentioned be related with the lack of meaning in life? If u want, we could talk about that via pm.
Quote (Thor123422 @ Jun 15 2020 12:19am)
If you need God to tell you to care about other people's well being, then you're an asshole, and you're just using religion to mask that. Even if I assume that only my own pleasure matters then I still have a pretty good incentive to care about others, because I value them. I love my wife and care about her well-being. People like to value and help other people. It's just part of being a social species.
Yes, you are right, but where this comes from? Why am I happy when I take care of others instead of taking care of myself? This doesn't make any sense from a materialistic point of view, it would make a lot more sense to just worry about myself.
Quote (Thor123422 @ Jun 15 2020 12:19am)
No, he isn't "loving her with that attitude". Doing something good for somebody doesn't mean you love them. I gave a homeless guy a box of crackers I had in my car a few weeks ago. That doesn't mean I love him.
Yes, it is a little proof of love. Try to do nothing at home and leave everything on your wife's back to see what is going to happen. Love is proven in the sacrifice, just having sex is very easy. I will give you a better defition of love below.
Quote (Thor123422 @ Jun 15 2020 12:19am)
Genuine question, is English your first language? It seems like some of the disagreement we have is just related to semantics, and you are arguing the semantics in a way I've never seen an English speaker argue them.
Nope, my first language is portuguese... maybe this is causing some misunderstandings, cuz I consult the google translator sometimes, lol.
Quote (Thor123422 @ Jun 15 2020 12:19am)
Something being the first cause can be called God, but a first cause does not need to be loving, or good, or personal, or intelligent. It just needs to result in motion. Adding in the extra stuff about being "everything in essence" just results in contradiction.
He has to be everything because every being will come from him. Nobody can give what they don't have. If you believe the matter is the first cause, then every being should come from it, which for me is absurd... I cannot conceive that intelligence, freedom and love come from matter.
I will give you now a more complete definition of love, I have been thinking a lot about our conversation during those days.
Love, more than just to want someone's good, is self-giving. It is not opposed to hate, but to selfishness (hate is a form of selfishness). Selfishness is simply to deny your donation to others. Love is a way of increasing your own being, because you open yourself up to others. In selfishness you diminish, because you lock yourself in.
God is love, we were made by God to love, this is the path to happiness: forgetting yourself and giving yourself (your time, your efforts) to others, this is the summary of all morality.
Don't you have the experience of spend a day just thinking about yourself? I have, and that sucked. However, I have also had the experience of spending a day forgetting myself and just thinking about others, and that was wonderful. Is it easy? No, it often requires sacrifice, it is the mystery of the cross.
This post was edited by Marcelorr on Jun 15 2020 07:28pm