you can't just say "no I didn't do that" when you can just look at the way you wrote your answer and its clearly leaning towards justifying Russias actions as "logical/realistic". Its like saying "its totally understandable that guy x murdered guy y, he hated the guy" - just because the outcome is realistic doesnt mean countries have to act on their lowerst impulses. There are other (diplomatic) means to achieve goals as well. Using military force should always be the last resort.
Yes the conflict was brewing for a while but clearly incited by Russia funding the rebels and sending covert troops into the region to fight there... they are doing similar things in other countries like Moldavia. And if the eastern parts of Ukraine were so badly surpressed and were longing for Russia to free them, why was the referendum in 2014 not done under more free and fair pretenses? Actual polls showed 2/3 of people were against independence from Ukraine. So of course Ukraine needed to act on this ... I would even at that time call it a sort of invation as it was orchestrated by Russia.
I don't see the contradiction you point out, as the propaganda was clearly fabricated
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Disinformation_in_the_Russian_invasion_of_UkraineI said I don't fault countries for looking for proection against an increasingly dangerous Russia looking to take their freedom and independence away even if initially the promise was a different one. I think that promise back then was made under the assumption that Russia too would enter a more democratic way at the end of the cold war. But to just say "that was promised, so now Russia is justified to lash out" seems kinda out of proportion. The overall diplomatic landscape always changes.
I think your example of Iraq shows that "being on the right side of history" is kinda difficult sometimes. But that doesn't mean I will give up my personal views and morals to which I will hold my leaders accountable. I think the difference is that Putin isn't accountable to the murders his Troops are commiting in Ukraine while at least if our politicians take measures that end in horrific loss of life, there are mechanisms such as NGOs/political opposition/media that will bring this to the publics attention,
resulting in actual consequences.
If you're so concerned about the Ukrainians and the difficulty they face right now you'd admit that this this whole adventure was a pretty bad idea. It didn't have to be this way why couldn't Ukraine just be a good neighbor, why didn't they just pay their gas bills but had to steal gas from Russia? If it's true that they have such a wealth of rare earths and other minerals why didn't they develop that with the help of Russia and use that money to pay their debt?
The West dangled a juicy carrot and a lot of promises and Ukraine took the bait that's what happened. They all understood that this could result in a war. You're not going to tell me that those leaders didn't understand that, they wouldn't be fit for office. /
And don't even start about propaganda. The Russians were out of missiles and throwing poorly trained conscripts armed with shovels at the Ukrainians meat-wave style. Allegedly they were stripping washing machines for circuit boards to put in their missiles. Oh and they were getting completely wrecked by the sanctions too, remember that one? And why did Denmark and Sweden quietly drop the Nord Stream investigation and why is Germany awfully quiet about it? If the Russians blew up those pipelines wouldn't it be great to show the evidence to the world?
The bolded is a joke right? The ICC didn't hold any of those leaders accountable but they signed an arrest warrant for the Russian president because he pulled Ukrainian kids (allegedly orphans) out of a war zone. Remember those dead Iraqi kids who was held accountable?