Need to know what to do with stats for a fighter and what gear to get..

Pretty easy, you basically put 110 - 120 points into dexterity [more if you like, but really don't need] , and the rest points into strength. You can use vary of three weapons along with some heavy weapons. But I would reccomend either swords or clubs for the crit weapons, or axes for the more consistent damage. Clubs being inbetween axe and sword. Your gonna look for enhanced effect on the weapons, and as for armor and charm either; a mixture of strengh/dexterity. Or all out strength or dexterity. If you get lifesteal on either its a huge bonus, but it's gonna cost. That's basically it, if you want to conserver your fg try grinding as much as you can, and upgrade your items every 10 levels or so. Here's a guide to help you out mate : http://forums.d2jsp.org/index.php?showtopic=17997568&f=272

not pumping dex all the way to 110-120... you want that to be your end result with your MQ gear on (MQ gear being your lvl 55 gear)

Oh yes, my bad. That's what I meant..thanks man

Well, unless he is going full out strength gear, then he should pump into dex right? I'm not sure, nonetheless you should have about 110-120 with mq gear on

Depends.

I don't do it that way.

My MQ charm + my base stats

+ about 14 into dex

and i'm good to go.

I don't really "pump it" at all..but it all depends on your gear if you have to pump it or not.