Given your stats, you will need around 3,000 cals on workout days, and 2,500 cals on non-workout days.
Here's the sample diets:
3,000 cals
Meal 1 - 4 whole eggs + 7 egg whites , 1 cup oatmeal, 1 apple, 2 oz sliced/diced ham - 16g fat + 60g protein + 60g net carbs
Meal 2 (snack) - 8oz 2% skim milk + 1 cup of blueberries or strawberries + 15 almonds + 2 large celery stalks + 4 oz lunchmeat (turkey/chicken/roast beef) - 10g fat + 45g protein + 10g net carbs
Meal 3 - 1 cup brown rice + 6 oz chicken breast + 1/2 cup black beans + green peppers/onions + 1 tbsp olive oil - 12g fat + 60g protein + 55g net carbs
Meal 4 (PWO) - 50g protein shake + 1 banana + 1tbsp peanut butter + 1 tsp jelly + 2 slices whole grain toast - 9g fat + 50g protein + 70g net carbs
Meal 5 - 6oz 93/7 lean beef + 4oz whole grain pasta (dry weight) + 6 tbsp tomato sauce + grated cheese + 1 cup broccoli - 12g fat + 40g protein + 90g net carbs
Meal 6 - 1 cup cottage cheese + 1 tbsp peanut butter + handful of blueberries/strawberries + cinnamon to taste - 8g fat + 35g protein + 5g net carbs
2,500 cals
Meal 1 - 3 whole eggs + 5 egg whites + green peppers and onions + 3/4 cup oatmeal (uncooked volume) + handful of mixed berries (any)
Meal 2 - 6 oz grilled chicken + 1 cup cooked brown rice + 1 large salad + 1 tbsp olive oil + vinegar
Meal 3 - 2 slices whole grain bread + 1 can of tuna + 1 oz of 2% cheese + 1tbsp mayo + veggies (tuna sandwich)
Meal 4 - 6 oz grilled sirloin steak 90/10 or leaner (trim off the fat) + 1/2 cup black beans + 1/2 cup brown rice + veggies + 1 tbsp olive oil
Meal 5 - 40g protein shake + handful mixed berries + 1 slice whole grain bread w/ 1 tbsp peanut butter and 1 tsp jelly
Meal 6 - 3/4 cup of 2% cottage cheese + 1tsp heavy cream + handful mixed berries + 10 almonds + cinnamon to taste
As far as the workout routine goes, start with 5x5:
http://forums.d2jsp.org/topic.php?t=21269614&f=60&p=3453006365x5 plan
If you don't have enough equipment, refer to the bowflex plans to supplement the free weights. I do not custom make plans for bowflex equipment at this time.
Make sure to get at least 8 hrs of sleep per night, and drink at least 1-1.5 gals of water per day.
Also, here is the current supplement guide:
http://forums.d2jsp.org/topic.php?t=21269614&f=60&p=475107555Supplement Guide