Quote (GameBox @ Jan 20 2014 05:07am)
so, my girlfriend is a wreck! yeah! she never do any physical activities, most of the day is chillin' on the couch, watching tv, and yet, she doesn't understand why she is so ill, and feeling so lazy etc etc...
i tell her to go see the doc, but she says "i've been there! i'm not low on any vitamins! i got everything i need! i just got a bad immune system, that's all!"
she's complaining to me all the time about how bad she's feeling, and i'm really sick of it.. i've been trying to get her started with some training, but she's not interested at all. she's getting mad when i ask her about it. she's been with me at the gym a few times, but she just finds herself a nice spot to sit and relax and type on her phone for the 90 minutes i'm there..
what should i do? might her bad shape/bad immune system be the reason of why she's a wreck?
i see no reason of why a person with a bad immune system should feel sick 24/7
It sounds to me that she has more of a mental/emotional issue rather than a physical one.
When someone lacks all motivation for physical activity and frequently complains of generally feeling unwell, there are a few things at play:
1. Malnourishment (particularly low in protein and certain vitamins)
2. Allergies (food or environmental)
3. Mental/Emotional distress causing physical manifestations
I would advise that you get her some time with a psychiatrist who can help her talk about things. Don't feel bad if this starts to help, sometimes people need a professional in order to start being able to address mental/emotional issues.
If that approach is a no-go, your options are either to leave her alone and keep her mellow, or aggressively take charge of her diet and exercise routines and risk pushing her away.
A tough decision needs to be made regardless, but in general it seems that she needs some type of help.