Ee on armors doesn't add dmg to your weapon...it o ly adds defense to armors...same for charms- ee adds extra damage or more healing to the charms spell but not to your sword...
If you want more damage for your weapon get armor or charms with dexterity
Also only your first charm will give you a bonus. The second charm doesn't do anything until you put it in slot 1, it's just like a backup
What I do is wear dexterity armor u til like lvl 25 and add all my sstat points to dex u til 25 to get more damage then I swap to ee armor and add my stats to vitality to get more life and defense from 25 u til 71...
Hope that helps a little
edit:
Daggers, staffs, spears, u want dex
Swords clubs, polearms, u want str
Axes u can do either as it's 50,50 but some ppl do dex cuz they think it makes more crits on axes
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im still noob too
This post was edited by OnlyCans on Aug 2 2022 07:18pm