Quote (ofthevoid @ 11 Jan 2023 03:49)
Most people don't want conflict and to hate. It takes effort to hate. Most people want closure and to move on and to grow rich and fat and see their kids grow up, etc. China and Poland were 2 examples but there are many more of why people move on, and 100 years seems like a long time.
It's really interesting the psychology and logic of stirring old things up though. Anti-Russian forces are highlighting Holodomor but i have RT on twitter and they constantly bring up Bandera's actions with the Poles. I guess it makes sense why RT and Sputnik was banned in much of the EU. Two sides of the same coin.
Its the same thing with China. My family lost all our lands and property in Guangzhou. My dad was jailed but was lucky to escape to Hong Kong before the cultural revolution.
My aunties were put on a platform tied up and being insulted by the red guards.
Does my family hate the gang of four period during the mid and late 60s? Absolutely yes.
But now that my dad see how well China is doing , he is actually kinda proud even if they are still
Communist Party in name.
In a more layman term if I might explain.
Its like having an ex girlfriend that screw you up really bad. Some people can't get over it.
But there are some people who's ex girlfriend screwed them up bad but further down the road, time heals and they see that their ex changed for the better , have a new family and start to take responsibility, they feel happy for them.
They might not forget the hurt, but they forgive them. Everyone makes mistakes.
This post was edited by Hamsterbaby on Jan 10 2023 01:59pm