I Like Bumble the girls message you first, less effort on your end and you know they’re interested not just fishing for attention.

Tried Tinder. Basic plan takes too long to find someone
Tried Taimi for the LGBT scene. It's only slightly better than Tinder
Tried Grindr. Deleted it.
Haven't tried Bumble

Fin enby life is hard

Good news! I found a gal and I'm now currently married. Used the mutual app. It was a bit nuts there for a bit. I was going on a new date a week. But there are a lot of fish out there. most of them you have to throw back into the sea.