Dey b gettin very mad about this.

Explain plz


Deep down, I just want to love her

Thats like calling a wimpy boy a wimp, he gonna tell on you

pretty accurate

people don't like to have their feelings and emotions invalidated

if you want to better the situation it's better to communicate when a situation is no longer escalated and not attack each other

Ya that doesnt work either, i went as far as to record it. she agreed she was being crazy, didnt change anything, she just wouldnt listen to anymore recordings.

Pretty much this.

Usually better to give the other person some space to think and calm down. Trying to convince the other person is wrong in an argument is a waste of time and childish.

My crazy: her gemini can't control both twins at once.

It's like I'm dating two hot chicks.. I just have to maintain the ability to keep up with her switching back and forths.

Its called projection - when you say things to label another person that are really about yourself.

OP's example doesn't have to be projection. More likely inexperience with women and their rollercoaster of feelings.

This post was edited by Lasagnacat on Jul 21 2019 12:22pm

99% of the people I hear talk about projection are actually really dumb and just label anything anyone says as projection.

Even though to an extent everything that someone says is a projection.

(Kind of like how what anyone says has some truth in it's origin e.g. a joke starts from a true idea or belief even though the whole joke isnt necessarily true)

The people who tend to claim projection and point it out verbally over do it and are usually way off and I find them mentally deficient.



This post was edited by Ramy on Jul 21 2019 12:23pm