Quote (bloodmeal @ Jun 13 2019 07:14am)
That's a very interesting observation...
I'm genuinely glad that you've taken the time to respond thoughtfully.
Perhaps very true.
I never intend for my observations and/or advice on these issues to come off insulting only honest and to the point
I've had to work on a lot of things myself and face my own issues as well
I don't think you're necessarily wrong for however you feel what it comes down to is how you react to how you feel. In my opinion there is a sort of nastiness within the context of your situation
it may not be intentional but I do think it shows a glimpse of some sort of lack of respect in general towards the sex you're attracted to
Now there are a lot of reasons this happens which is where a professional can help you help yourself. Could be fear could be contempt we all have our things but I do think it's worth considering mainly because relationships are not without consequences on either side so if you truly do care about her you'll try to figure out why you don't think any of your significant others were intelligent including her and why you wanted to put her on blast in the way you did which in my opinion came off less about looking for opinions and more about being a little nasty about someone you said you love.
This post was edited by Beowulf on Jun 13 2019 08:27am