Idk how you interact with your wife so I don't really have any real advice or serious input. My suggestion would be to try to be more involved in her life and try to change both of yourselves through a roundabout means, like maybe planning activities with you, her and your kids on free time or weekends, maybe a date with just you and her going for a hike, outdoor shit that is super relaxing.

I know this area man, there is so much you can do within an hours drive... Fishing, kayaking, hiking, biking...

You obviously know jack shit about problem drinking, when someone drinks enough to blow chunks in their car and drive home you can trust that it’s not just someone else wanting the other person to have a problem. Social drinkers don’t drink until blacked out and have to be told about last night. Neither of us used to be like this but it is what it is now. Her mother is a heavy alcoholic and her father died because of alcoholic health issues, liver was fucked but that didn’t even get him, his kidneys shut down. My mother and father were also alcoholics, its a progressive disease and unfortunately we have both progressed. Like i said she has not taken it to the same point as i have but you dont have to get caught to have an issue, social drinkers also don’t hide away in their basement at home and drink large bottles of wine by themselves, by yourself is not social. Anyways I don’t even know why im responding to you, seem like a troll to me anyhow lol bye

This post was edited by Drakwen on Jun 23 2018 11:31pm

your wife is also an alcoholic and doesn't have any right to demand you quit. what she wants is all the negative effects of your alcoholism to be gone. if those aren't enough to make her want to quit so that you can too, she also has a problem.
also, part of your depression is being caused by feelings of entitlement. You haven't had sex in six months? boohoo, get over it, nobody owes you sex. i haven't been laid in two years (by choice, haters go ahead and hate IDFC) and im not depressed... because i dont believe anyone owes me sex or that I'm pathetic because i dont have sex or that i must have sex to be happy.

read Allen Carr's Easy Way To Control Alcohol.

the realest though.

You and alcohol are through drak

This post was edited by MrSkales on Jun 24 2018 02:22am

well, if this will ever help you I dunno, but yeah just try think more, you only have 1 life, do things that you like, and try to avoid things that make your life bad. basic concept but you really need to know what things are good for you and which are not,

also best of luck, you have a wife and kids you probably made it further in life then a lot of gc members

wtf? just drink in moderation

literally you right now:

epic win gif!

Tldr

Lmaoooo surprisingly accurate

Lol