In my personal experience, boys are more likely to do apnea than girls.
Your signature is a pretty telling example.
In your signature, for example, we can see a boy with his mouth shut, with still shoulders, and with his eyes flashing.
Why do you use the image of a boy with a closed mouth?
I can not prove anything because I do not have the money to do scientific work.
By cons, I can gather a set of elements that support my theories.
I am not trying to prove anything.
I am seeing things and trying to understand these things.
Have you ever seen the movie "Bean" with Rowan Atkinson (1997)?
Mr. Bean's job is to sit in a corner and look at the paintings.
I have the same job as him.
I sit in a corner and I look at the World.
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