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Jan 13 2017 09:29pm
Quote (CocaineKitty @ Jan 13 2017 07:28pm)
Do you know me?


Rofl no, unless you're dating a 6'5" kid from Washington :rofl:

I've been dating for about 8 months and she never mentioned JSP. What are we having for dinner? Or am I making breakfast for dinner again?
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Jan 14 2017 06:44am
Quote (DALTONG @ Jan 6 2017 02:31am)
I want to but something won't let me do it... even if the other person wants just sex nothing more.

Out of the 3 chicks that wanted this, this year. The only one I actually wanted made it more complicated than it had to be and I gave up/lost interest


Don't know you well enough to make assumptions, but it sounds like you are putting to much though into it man.
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Jan 15 2017 09:10am
Quote (DALTONG @ Jan 5 2017 11:31pm)
I want to but something won't let me do it... even if the other person wants just sex nothing more.

Out of the 3 chicks that wanted this, this year. The only one I actually wanted made it more complicated than it had to be and I gave up/lost interest


Haha wassup long time no see
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Jan 17 2017 08:58am
Quote (Captain87 @ Jan 14 2017 07:44am)
Don't know you well enough to make assumptions, but it sounds like you are putting to much though into it man.


Agreed
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Jan 20 2017 10:07pm
Because people that do such things are psychopaths that don't have empathy or true feelings for other people. They are stone cold on the inside, dangerous people. They'll go after your wife if they get the opportunity.

This post was edited by Taurean on Jan 20 2017 10:08pm
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Jan 21 2017 09:40am
Quote (Taurean @ Jan 20 2017 11:07pm)
Because people that do such things are psychopaths that don't have empathy or true feelings for other people. They are stone cold on the inside, dangerous people. They'll go after your wife if they get the opportunity.



I feel the vast majority of people are inherently good.

I also think that just because people will sleep with anyone regardless of consequence, just means they are in the moment thinking ,and not considering long term.
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Jan 22 2017 02:26pm
Quote (Captain87 @ 21 Jan 2017 16:40)
I feel the vast majority of people are inherently good.

I also think that just because people will sleep with anyone regardless of consequence, just means they are in the moment thinking ,and not considering long term.


The deal is, in order to be able to have causal sex, you have to "turn off" your feelings, if you're not going to be attached to that person, as people that decide to form a relationship does. Then this becomes a practice in turning on and off your feelings. In my mind, this is sociopathic behaviour.
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Jan 22 2017 03:55pm
Quote (Taurean @ Jan 22 2017 03:26pm)
The deal is, in order to be able to have causal sex, you have to "turn off" your feelings, if you're not going to be attached to that person, as people that decide to form a relationship does. Then this becomes a practice in turning on and off your feelings. In my mind, this is sociopathic behaviour.



I can agree there but not everyone attaches feeling to sex. Most do but not all.
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Jan 23 2017 12:05am
Quote (Taurean @ Jan 22 2017 02:26pm)
The deal is, in order to be able to have causal sex, you have to "turn off" your feelings, if you're not going to be attached to that person, as people that decide to form a relationship does. Then this becomes a practice in turning on and off your feelings. In my mind, this is sociopathic behaviour.



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This post was edited by DALTONG on Jan 23 2017 12:05am
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Jan 23 2017 08:27am
it's just a personal preference.
Everyone has their own different boundaries
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