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Jun 9 2026 04:14pm
What Dating App you using? Is it Free? I don’t like paying for BS likes n roses n # of time to messages.

I’m 1 week in and got 1 match, she didn’t respond to me, 1 hour drive away and almost 40 yr old, little overweight as well. Not my type, maybe I matched it accidentally. :o



I’m myself is like 6/10 if I’m really exercise and be in shape. Currently 5/10 lol :D
I’m looking for 4/10 or 5/10 as long as they are Kind good heart easy going, and have 5/10 Body not over weight or too skinny.



Better to be friendly to people or walk away from dramas.



Gotta find that good connection, good people without dramas and baggage are the best ones! :)



Yeah gotta find someone with good chemistry and we won’t care much about our flaws and willing to keep it going strong! :)
I envy those happy couples I see around! Why not me! Well I had a fake one for 10 years until it didn’t work anymore. Divorced! New beginnings now in my Late 30s still feel young n strong. Being active. B)


I was mostly using tinder and was paying for what ever gave you unlimited swipes. That app was pretty useless though. I met my fiance on Bumble. Never paid for it. The gimmick of that one is that the "female" is the only one that can send a message first. ( I put female in quotes because a lot of guys set their profile to female so they could message first or they were just too stupid to set the correct gender)

Generally they're all the same. For a while I was using multiple at once and I would just find the same people on all of them, or match with the same people that never responded and would later unmatch.
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Jun 10 2026 01:31am
If the app not works, i got a nice opening line for you:

You can park that shit on my face all day long baby
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Jun 10 2026 03:52am
Use a burner if you must go on some dating site.

Imo just go out and cold open. See a girl you like and ask her out, its not hard. You will have much higher chances of getting a date than any app.
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Jun 10 2026 01:19pm
Make sure you check them for a Joey's apple


Or give them drinks spiked with viagra
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Jun 11 2026 12:14am
X to doubt.


lol yeah it’s gotta hit X to some of them

Get a passport and find love overseas.

Dating chicks in america is a very bad idea, they will ruin you lol.


Hmm maybe when I’m 45 or 50 yr old, now I’m 38, so locally is still more convenient to test my luck if I just need to find a good simple one easy going woman :D

Yeah the ghetto and smart ass Americanized women I gotta be careful staying away!!! I got hurt by 2 of them the past 2 years. :(
Still recovering

Hope you meet the man you’re looking for


lol some of them transgenders! Good thing they look manly and I Skip them quick!!!! B)

The main reason I say be weary about exchanging numbers is if they end up being nuts, it's not difficult for them to harass you. Text-apps are pretty easy to get to text with a burner number.

You could also look up online if there are any speed dating events locally. They're actually pretty fun and usually involve food and booze.


Yeah I use a Text Now App for a secondary phone # to call n text. It cannot do video though. I saw some locally have speed dating one of those weekends I gotta attend and show up just to talk to someone, might find someone interesting or compatible.

I love Food and regular Drinks :D
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Jun 11 2026 12:31am
i have no legs and i get girls with no apps. what that does tell about You. u ugly? :mellow:
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Hmm maybe when I’m 45 or 50 yr old, now I’m 38, so locally is still more convenient to test my luck if I just need to find a good simple one easy going woman :D

Yeah the ghetto and smart ass Americanized women I gotta be careful staying away!!! I got hurt by 2 of them the past 2 years. :(
Still recovering



Dont waste your best years man. I met my girl when I was 32, and she was 22. Im glad I didnt waste anymore time with entitled western women that make less than $25/hr and expect to eat lobster dinners because they have vaginas. That kind of stuff warps the fragile female mind.

But you cant blame them. Child like minds and having 40+ guys approach you everyday with the hot ones having access to millionaires just cuz they're hot..... how do you think they'll treat any normal guy :rofl:

And dont forget if you marry one of these sickos, they have a "get out with 50% of your shit" card and all they have to do is make a few false allegations about you. These women know the system very well, and they share the knowledge enthusiastically amongst their friends.
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i have no legs and i get girls with no apps. what that does tell about You. u ugly? :mellow:


lol I’m in my late 30s and I don’t want to date women with kids, my age range they usually have kids and younger mid 25 yr olds they got more options and playing hard to get. It’s ok no Big deal just need to be patient and keep on Looking! :D
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I was mostly using tinder and was paying for what ever gave you unlimited swipes. That app was pretty useless though. I met my fiance on Bumble. Never paid for it. The gimmick of that one is that the "female" is the only one that can send a message first. ( I put female in quotes because a lot of guys set their profile to female so they could message first or they were just too stupid to set the correct gender)

Generally they're all the same. For a while I was using multiple at once and I would just find the same people on all of them, or match with the same people that never responded and would later unmatch.


Yeah it’s rough out there on dating apps for us 5/10 Guys. I don’t want to pay for unlimited swipes for now, maybe later on if I think it’ll make a big difference. I don’t like to commit to paying memberships or canceling it back n forth.

So far there’s 3 matches and they don’t really respond, doesn’t seem to be their priority. I won’t wait for them if they don’t reply after few messages, move on to next ones :)

If the app not works, i got a nice opening line for you:

You can park that shit on my face all day long baby


Nice line! After I know them for a month probably. :lol:

Use a burner if you must go on some dating site.

Imo just go out and cold open. See a girl you like and ask her out, its not hard. You will have much higher chances of getting a date than any app.


Yeah I’ve gotten 5x phone #s this year so far but none of them went past first couple days and didn’t even get to 1st Date. It’s ok at least I saved myself money for those 5 dates lol :D

Just gotta approach some more women in places and just start conversations and hopefully get a # after 5 minutes of chatting or before we leave.

Make sure you check them for a Joey's apple

Or give them drinks spiked with viagra


Make sure they are not a Man! Or former Man wow… nah I don’t really drink and I’m not that Desperate!

Dont waste your best years man. I met my girl when I was 32, and she was 22. Im glad I didnt waste anymore time with entitled western women that make less than $25/hr and expect to eat lobster dinners because they have vaginas. That kind of stuff warps the fragile female mind.

But you cant blame them. Child like minds and having 40+ guys approach you everyday with the hot ones having access to millionaires just cuz they're hot..... how do you think they'll treat any normal guy :rofl:

And dont forget if you marry one of these sickos, they have a "get out with 50% of your shit" card and all they have to do is make a few false allegations about you. These women know the system very well, and they share the knowledge enthusiastically amongst their friends.


Yeah this system is setup against the Men and the entitled Westernized women talk shit to each other knowing how to betray their good Men when we are no longer useful to their Greedy Needs.

I’m 38 now and I won’t Marry again until 40 or 42 if that woman is loyal and wife material, or else we have to sign pre nups agreements as well. Really have to know them for marriage otherwise I’m not doing it No thank you!!! Been there done that!!! 10 years of marriage was a Torture!!! Fuck that!!! :(
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Jun 11 2026 04:09pm
Make sure you check them for a Joey's apple


Or give them drinks spiked with viagra


Lmao hopefully you aren't suggesting this from prior experience.
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