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Mar 17 2026 06:27pm
Why don’t you fake marry for the money instead?


Im afraid that some ladies from foreign country Will fake marry me just for the dowry money then leave me broke!!! I do want to sign prenup n protect myself. At least get to know someone for 2-3 years before marrying or have a child together. Rushing is Never Good!!! :o

Sounds tough and not like something I'd be into but shiiiiittt is she HOT ? Go bang her a few times then change your phone #


Not hot n her close people knows my parents so can’t do that.
Also my recent relationship I invested so much time and energy and money into it, that woman barely slept with me for a grand total of two weeks out of 7 months, completely sold me a false hope n now blaming that I should’ve go to her more often. Not messing with Single mother’s again!!!! Not worth my time n energy n the drama n very costly!!!! :(

need pictures to confirm


She’s average looking, 35 yr old now 5ft 4
Slim, 120 pound, looks 5 out of 10.

I am also 5 out of 10 lol.

Try men.


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Mar 18 2026 12:44pm
Whats their hometown country?


They are not American, and any foreign country’s will go through immigration process which takes 5 to 10 months and up to 15 months if there’s a Delay,

Better I try my Luck here in USA and there’s 100 million Women I’m just looking for the right ONE, all I Need. At least Desire for Green Card will be out of the way. B)

You don't need a woman, you can do you.
Robots on the way to replace them.


But robots are still cold and plastic, maybe they have better AI now can have better Conversations, at least robots won’t hurt me, lie to me, cheating and take half of my Shitt when she don’t feel like it while not contributing much to the savings. :o

So lemme get this straight..
In order not to disappoint your parents, you are willing to step into an arranged marriage with a girl you've never met, never seen, and you're fully aware she barely speaks English?
Also you're willing to do this with a 35 year old that's somehow single (sounds men were not really fighting over her) just 1 year after your 10 years marriage fell apart?

Sounds like a poorly written 90s sitcom of a miserable foreigner in American suburbs


You’re right! I’m not going to give in my long term happiness to marry a 35 yr old stranger just because my parents thinks she’s going to be a good wife for me, what if I need to raise another children in few years and late 30s women fertility are difficult.

I just want to focus on myself right now my own health and paperwork’s and be good at my Job. :hail:

You sound like daltong.


Whats daltong?
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Mar 18 2026 12:58pm
They are not American, and any foreign country’s will go through immigration process which takes 5 to 10 months and up to 15 months if there’s a Delay,

Better I try my Luck here in USA and there’s 100 million Women I’m just looking for the right ONE, all I Need. At least Desire for Green Card will be out of the way. B)



But robots are still cold and plastic, maybe they have better AI now can have better Conversations, at least robots won’t hurt me, lie to me, cheating and take half of my Shitt when she don’t feel like it while not contributing much to the savings. :o



You’re right! I’m not going to give in my long term happiness to marry a 35 yr old stranger just because my parents thinks she’s going to be a good wife for me, what if I need to raise another children in few years and late 30s women fertility are difficult.

I just want to focus on myself right now my own health and paperwork’s and be good at my Job. :hail:



Whats daltong?


Moya is a highly advanced, biomimetic humanoid robot unveiled by Shanghai-based DroidUp in early 2026. Designed for companionship, education, and healthcare, it stands 1.65m tall, boasts 92% human-like walking gait accuracy, and features warm skin (
) with realistic micro-expressions. Expected in late 2026, it aims to blur the lines between AI and human interaction.

Some women might have to find something to offer realistically soon.
For the good ones out there, you're in the clear.
Otherwise just do your thing, make money, be healthy, and ignore the slop.

This post was edited by lolkggz on Mar 18 2026 01:03pm
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Mar 18 2026 01:04pm
Hello Folks! B)

I’m Recently Divorced Finally :D after 1 Year!!! From a 10 year old marriage that was going well until 8th year and failed last couple years because I wasn’t good enough anymore and I was too Bored, She wanted more thinking Grass might be Greener on the other side.

I’m Now in my Late 30s and my Parents wants to Arrange a marriage for me from their hometown foreign country, the Lady is 35 year old already and I Worry the Immigration Process and Visa and interview whether it’s a Genuine relationship or not will take another 10 to 15 months.

I already Been through Torture for the past 3 years and I don’t know much about this New 35 yr old lady well enough if the marriage can work for lifetime, she looks decent but Very limited English, I’m a US Citizen. I don’t like long distance relationship at all and my recent relationship failed because of 5+ hours Driving distance one way. I would not be able to wait 15 months to marry a then 37 yr old Lady I barely spend time together maybe two trips vacations a year. It’s too much to put time n energy into if she becomes too old to have anymore child with me down the road.

I’m just having hard time to Not Disappoint my Older parents now in their mid 60s because I want to find someone nice locally and test my luck and skip a long 1 year immigration process and not pressure to marry right away 90days after fiancé arrival to USA. Most Women will not be interested with Men that Shares Kids with Their Ex, there’s Drama. :o


Lmk if you're parents can find me a bride too THX
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Moya is a highly advanced, biomimetic humanoid robot unveiled by Shanghai-based DroidUp in early 2026. Designed for companionship, education, and healthcare, it stands 1.65m tall, boasts 92% human-like walking gait accuracy, and features warm skin (
) with realistic micro-expressions. Expected in late 2026, it aims to blur the lines between AI and human interaction.

Some women might have to find something to offer realistically soon.
For the good ones out there, you're in the clear.
Otherwise just do your thing, make money, be healthy, and ignore the slop.


I've been waiting for women to have something to bring to the table for YEARS
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Mar 18 2026 01:26pm
Whats daltong?


a crackhead, turns out
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Mar 18 2026 01:27pm
They are not American, and any foreign country’s will go through immigration process which takes 5 to 10 months and up to 15 months if there’s a Delay,

Better I try my Luck here in USA and there’s 100 million Women I’m just looking for the right ONE, all I Need. At least Desire for Green Card will be out of the way?


Depending on the country can alter the time it takes. But American women ... just ... hell yeah.

Your call.

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Mar 18 2026 04:17pm
You don't need a woman, you can do you.
Robots on the way to replace them.


Fingers crossed.
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Mar 18 2026 11:10pm
Wtf tell your parents to chill out you aren't 12 and this is not 1800's. There is plenty of women over here why do you need to import one from across the world?
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Mar 19 2026 02:53am
Moya is a highly advanced, biomimetic humanoid robot unveiled by Shanghai-based DroidUp in early 2026. Designed for companionship, education, and healthcare, it stands 1.65m tall, boasts 92% human-like walking gait accuracy, and features warm skin (
) with realistic micro-expressions. Expected in late 2026, it aims to blur the lines between AI and human interaction.

Some women might have to find something to offer realistically soon.
For the good ones out there, you're in the clear.
Otherwise just do your thing, make money, be healthy, and ignore the slop.


Wow very interesting and tempting!
Sometimes All I need is just for companionship! And don’t need the dramas and problems that comes with real women!
The robot will definitely cost tens of thousands dollars but still might be cheaper than real woman if she decides to screw you over!
Gonna look this up!! :lol:

Lmk if you're parents can find me a bride too THX


It’s expensive! Have to pay Bride dowary to her Parents!

I've been waiting for women to have something to bring to the table for YEARS


They bring some love but it’s conditional and acts too much on their emotions! Can’t rely or trust them! They happy when things are good and Leaves immediately for something better if we Men are struggling to give them what they want!! :(

a crackhead, turns out


Oh I see!

Sucks you're not an adult who can make his own choices.

Oh wait...


lol yeah sucks! My siblings all left the parents and have less stress I guess, but they don’t care for their own parents and I’m still here taking care of my parents and not letting them be alone past decades.
My siblings not doing any better. :o

Didn’t you said you were around 30? That is crazy. I am still single at your age. You are already into second marriage and new kids.


Yeah I was rushed into first one in my mid 20s but can’t complain as last 10 years have ups and downs and moving on right now. B)

That's not a brag on his end. 0-1 marriages are better than 2+.


I might have 2-3 marriage in me hopefully second one will be a good one and no mistakes lol :D
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