Loading times are rarely related to RAM. As Dubstepmammoth was asking, your game is installed on an HDD right ?
See it like this : if you have hard time loading a game, when launching or changing zone that requires to read from disk, it's speed of disk that impacts performances. If, once the files are loaded, you have difficulties with the game itself, has having lags and stuff, then it can be GPU or RAM.
Depending of your MB, it's highly possible your computer can host 1 to 2 SSD. Could be a nice option to add one (M2) if possible, to host your games. Even better would be to have 2 of them, one for your system, so your computer is starting quickly, and one for your games. Save your HDD for files, downloads, videos, or oldies that don't need SSD to be optimal.
The reason behind that is that HDD is a mechanical device, with heads reading and writing on physical disks, therefore you're limited by RPMs (rotations per minute). SSD is electrical device, it goes quicker to information.
I wouldn't suggest to change the virtual memory. Actually, it's a method to impact badly your games. It was used back in the days when you hadn't enought RAM, you then would sacrifice a part of your disk to simulate RAM, but doing it was also slowing everything, since that "simulated RAM" was using a hard drive, again limited by its mechanical parts.
Last but not least, try to use the good abreviations, "PoE is using less than 8GB". "gbs" or more often "gbps" is a rate for networks. Small b means bit, big B means Byte. 1 Byte = 8 bits. If PoE ask for 8gb, it means it requires 1GB, and it's not the case