Well as long as the good qualities outweigh the bad ones who am I to tell you who you should like? But if you want advice don't get married, If you do consult a lawyer BEFORE you even think about getting married. Set up a prenuptial and a trust to protect your own wealth. I've seen many guys get absolutely cleaned out by divorce. They are messy no one thinks they need one until they do. Divorce rates are high especially "gray divorce" where they are growing.
Gives you peace of mind and no stress.
After my Divorce i have trust issues now if there’s distance and lack of face to face time. I almost accepted to marry again so soon just for some fancy love words and fancy love ideas going forward.
Im glad I came to my senses that marrying again so soon without protecting what little that I have left and im half way till retirement later before 60 yr old. Next marriage might be my last to agree to and maybe I won’t even marry just date and date till someone willing to stay together with me just to be together, not a paper to prove loving each other and sign a mans rights away.
Great advice with lawyer and Pre nups and putting things into trust.
If you're not ready that's fine. Pull the ripchord and get outta there.
Definitely Not ready, it felt too much hard work and too one sided. I have to give up so much just to have a maybe good love story.
Trying to get outta there now by texting and calling less, very likely we never want to meet again im avoiding her to cause more deeper feelings and then get blamed if I quit later.
You skood.
Yep
This post was edited by JayBomber on Jan 26 2026 08:49pm