Again you're bringing up people with severe physical impairments. Do you even understand my argument?

Obviously beauty is not a skill one learns. Not everyone can be beautiful. Having plastic surgery does not mean one is naturally good looking. Even unnatural chemical facial structure changes from performance enhancing drugs, (ped/steroids) do not change one from ugly to attractive. All it does is adjust ones jaw structure.

This post was edited by said_aouita on Jul 14 2025 09:58am

sounds like a skill issue

well fuck you too then

took a vote. Ty sir

It absolutely is a skill people can learn.

Women know this very well. Women go from not beautiful to beautiful with skill: learning skincare, learning makeup, learning yoga & other proper exercise, learning proper posture and how to conduct themselves in the way they walk and interact. Its the basis of beauty competitions. Its absolutely a skill. Most men are garbage at it.

Any kind of steroids or plastic surgery makes people ugly, not beautiful. Juice monkeys are ugly. Chopped up women are ugly.

If you wish to be beautiful, learn it. Have discipline.

This post was edited by El1te on Jul 14 2025 10:16am

intel

dont wanna live to be 80. Most of the men on my mom's side dont live to see 70 so im on track for that.

Definitely . I work at a tattoo shop. I was working and she came in and I did some piercings on her. She literally called me after she left and we did the nasty the very next day. Been inseparable ever since. So it definitely started out with looks. I get hit on a LOT. but she's the first person I've ever said yes to because I was instantly extremely attracted to her. Just this week I've had too many people to count tell me how gorgeous my eyes are. I just politely say thank you. I even get cat called sometimes lol. I've never had to make the first move, ever. I don't know what it's like to see someone attractive and try to ask them out. I've always been the one asked out. Not bragging, just telling it how it's been for me dating wise my entire life

She's definitely smarter than me. She's a special Ed teacher and has gotten me through some pretty rough times. I've never been so sure about marrying someone or actually knowing I'll spend my life with her. She's a really good person and I'm lucky she came in that day

This post was edited by Loipisdead on Jul 14 2025 02:01pm

What if you have neither intelligence, health or looks what then?

You're absolutely right

Looks are the spark that begins most relationships, you only learn who people are over time and that can only happen if you're initially attracted to each other