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Jun 16 2025 02:16pm
Yes next week

Caravan in Belgium, with family
and going to the biggest Zoo in Europe.

Not that i need to go anywhere, i live in the greenest city of the Netherlands


where the dutch turbo herbs are in coffee shops :thumbsup:
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Jun 16 2025 02:34pm
Just want to sit in the staff room before my shift and not answer his stupid questions

No response is sadly the only way he'll learn


You should tell him about what you do on jsp.
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Jun 16 2025 03:05pm
You should tell him about what you do on jsp.


nah not looking for any male friends tbh

I'm on my sigma grindset
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Jun 16 2025 03:23pm
nah, I've softlocked myself into making coffee due to working mutiple barista jobs, I wouldn't call it a passion, think I'd rather go to a pr0n convention



thank you



some are yes/no questions, some aren't, either way I'd rather browse jsp than engage in mind numbing small talk which then leads to someone telling me about their life unless they're a female that I want to fuck/settle down with, not some random guy


Why don't you stop giving them tacit approval encouraging small talk, take a lead and engage in a conversation you do want to talk about?

Sounds to me like you have no social skills to be engaging and have an expectation for others to be interesting while providing nothing of value in return.

The other guy probably doesn't have much skills either but at least he is trying to build rapport with his work colleagues and you are blaming him for your inability.
He is a team player and you are a bitter forever alone coffee boy that looks down on people.

This post was edited by addone on Jun 16 2025 03:32pm
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nah not looking for any male friends tbh

I'm on my sigma grindset


Yeah, I'd be embarrassed to admit it to others too.
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Jun 16 2025 03:47pm
Why don't you stop giving them tacit approval encouraging small talk, take a lead and engage in a conversation you do want to talk about?

Sounds to me like you have no social skills to be engaging and have an expectation for others to be interesting while providing nothing of value in return.

The other guy probably doesn't have much skills either but at least he is trying to build rapport with his work colleagues and you are blaming him for your inability.
He is a team player and you are a bitter forever alone coffee boy that looks down on people.


see?

you're commincating with me and it doesn't make me happy, so fuck off?

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Jun 16 2025 04:01pm
see?

you're commincating with me and it doesn't make me happy, so fuck off?


Being assertive is a sign that you still have balls and not a door mat. I am glad I could help you find them.

However your social skills need major calibration as you went from a neutered mouse to a rabid chihuahua.

So for those reasons put the fries in the bag.

This post was edited by addone on Jun 16 2025 04:12pm
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Being assertive is a sign that you still have balls and not a door mat. I am glad I could help you find them.

However your social skills need major calibration as you went from a neutered mouse to a rabid chihuahua.

So for those reasons put the fries in the bag.


I feel so dunked on I guess
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Jun 16 2025 05:02pm
your comment is based on the assumption my employer has a "black list", gives a fuck, or likes the person I'm ignoring.

Their's no "black list"
my employer doesn't care about something as petty as that
and to be honest this member of staff has been told they need to work faster which means they're not really appricated

to assume you know anything about my workplace or it's culture is weird

edit: might I add I'm not the only one who has found him to be annoying, one of the girls has had to block him on instagram, she blanks him too in the staff room, I should of listened to her from the start


Ok. Thank you for providing more info so we better understand the situation.
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Jun 16 2025 05:35pm
Humor your co-workers, then gas light them.
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