No, I made a harmless joke about a theoretical rule allowing attractive women to stay, and you came out swinging for no reason and without provocation saying that they'd "rather be deported than hang out with you". Just admit that all you did was ad hom, there's no other way to frame it.
Yikes. 2016 called they want their surface level feminist virtue signaling back. Anyways...
You seem remarkably triggered, I thought my comment did not apply to you at all? Is your marriage doing ok?