^IceMage ^gnarjay ^Plaguefear ^SkySwallower ^SBD
It's time to admit you were wrong, the delay and initial refusal to release the female pilots name did mean she was responsible.
She didn't listen to either ATC instructions, or her Copilots instructions in the end.
So you read 6 pages pointing out how the controller was at fault then point out the one line where the female pilot did something wrong when it was pretty much too late to avoid the plane less than a mile away..