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Once you understand how sinful humans really are and how far short we fall before God's glory, you'd understand how much grace God has and how much he still loves us all. That belief is not based on fear by any means but first comes the repentance and the sorrow upon the realization
Step 1: Destroy a person's self-worth and make them feel like scum.
Step 2: Convince that person that you still love them in spite of the fact that they're so worthless.
Step 3: Punish disobedience with over-whelming force.
Sounds an awful lot like how any cult gains and maintains followers. It also sounds like how battered women are convinced that their boyfriends and husbands really do want what's best for them.
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However a man whose faith crumbles in the end was never solid faith or true faith to begin with.
That's exactly what I was trying to say. Without solid/true faith, you can't believe, and like you said, God is the one who grants faith. If you don't have true faith to begin with, then that means God didn't grant it to you and so God does not wish for you to believe and be saved. Now perhaps God gives some people faith and they misapply it and subscribe to other religions, but for people without a religion, it's clear that they have received no faith.
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First and foremost I thought that 17 to 22 was 5 years and not 7
I was a bit unclear here. I started questioning at 22 and came out as an atheist a few months ago when I was 24. So that's 7 years where I would have said I was a Christian.
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No matter what age you die, if you use the gift of faith that God has given you, you would have peace of mind so you will not fear death
God has given me no faith, otherwise it wouldn't have crumbled and I wouldn't lack belief in a god.
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If somebody is convinced that there is nothing after death and they are confronted by it, you think they will cower and whimper?
If someone is convinced there is nothing after death and therefore thinks life is all we have, then they won't cower or whimper in fear of "what's next" but they will grieve for being unable to continue living. Life is infinitely precious because it's so rare and because we only exist for such a brief moment in the cosmic history of the universe.