I seriously dont know what you are trying to tell us kid.
Chaos? What chaos? I live in perfectly peace of mind and comfortably.
Everyday I get up I look at the sky and its sunny, I go out have my coffee and walk on the beach surrounded by hundreds of hot girls.
Then I surf for awhile, get some tan, come back home, have a shower, check on d2jsp, go out for lunch check on more girls always walking in bikinis right on the sidewalk.
Then I go for my afternoon coffee, relax a little bit at starbucks with a friend or two sometimes, check d2jsp again, and go home for dinner.
At night if I feel like it I go have a drink at some bar, usually theres always some girl that comes talk to me and all of a sudden Im kissing her and taking her home (this is seriously how it happens)
Then I enjoy the night with her, and luckily she will be leaving back to the mainland soon and I dont have to deal with the after sex drama.
But yea, what chaos??