Alright so lets get some basic information out of the way. I'm supposed to begin attending Harvard the semester after next for Law, after I receive my degree, I will be attending school at the Naval Academy after which I will receive a commission into the United States Navy, just a little personal info to help everyone understand why I'm freaking out. I have hypospadias, which I've been told lowers the chance of pregnancy. I have had sex with a friend of mine 4-5 times, I have never ejaculated inside of her without a condom on (although once I did *** a lot and I was kind of afraid the condom overflowed). My penis has been inside of her a few times without a condom on, and precum did get inside of her, however I had urinated since my last ejaculation every time except one, and in that particular case my penis had been exposed to the air for quite some time before I put it back in her. She is not on birth control (can't afford it), smokes weed, snorts xanex along with other pills, smokes cigarettes and drinks. She has sex with at least two other guys that I know of, and every time I've had sex with her, she had also had sex with both of them earlier in the week. Also I'm not sure if it will matter but I have Benign Intracranial Hypertension Pseudo Tumor Cerebra. Now back to the question, she is 4-5 days late for her period (her boobs aren't hurting but she has been feeling nauseated and "Like my insides are all fucked up".) What are the odds that she is pregnant, and if she is, should I be worried about whether or not the kid's going to be mine?

Additionally, I can think of three reasons why she would be missing her period other than pregnancy,

1. Stress, she's about to graduate college but has no idea what to do after
2. She just got over being sick
3. She's underweight

BTW, I know this probably isn't the right thread for this question but I couldn't find a better one.

This post was edited by The_Disputatious_Linguist on Mar 16 2011 07:55pm

If you've only had sex with her with a condom on, it's very unlikely that you impregnated her. Do you trust her to tell you that she's only had sex with those other two guys with condoms as well?

Also, are her periods always very regular? Because if she's only 4-5 days late it MIGHT not be cause for concern.

women get sick like that when they are near their period and even if she is pregnant there is a 33% chance it's yours... wouldnt worry about it... and if it is yours, i'd commit suicide because the mother of your child would obviously be a whore

If she's pregnant and doesn't get an abortion, call up Maury and go on his show, he'll cover the paternity tests etc: http://www.mauryshow.com/

She said that her periods are very irregular, and I'll definitely check out the Maury thing, thanks!

option 4

1. 4-5 days late doesnt mean pregnant
2. seeing as how you were accepted into harvard, you are financially fit to raise a child.
3, if you arent ready to have kids, the least you could do is pull out. i do it everytime no matter what.

i didnt even read his paragraph, but 4-5 days late? thats it?

i started datin this girl and first time i had sex with her, i knocked her shit out of cycle for 2 months...literally not even joking.

This post was edited by BrockGG on Mar 17 2011 10:27am

Well I just found out that she is for sure pregnant. One of the other guy's said that he would support the child with the mom. She said that she doesn't think it's mine anyway and that she thinks I should continue with my education...........



So now my only worry is her changing her mind.

In other words she was probably having unprotected sex with that other guy. Best just to wash your hands of the whole situation and carry on with your life just like she suggested.