IT pops up, i lower all the graphic requirements, Click start. IT gets "if im lucky" to the login screen for like 2sec then my screen goes blue and restarts... Hasn't always been like this... i have no problems with any other games or software...

The game is taking up too much RAM and/or CPU Memory.
If your getting a Blue Screen Of Death, you need to upgrade your CPU and/or RAM to run it.
Or possibly get a Graphics Card.

I have 3g ram:(.... And ive played this game b4 on this laptop, its only more recentally ir stopped letting me.

Try uninstall/reinstall.

the blue screen of death?

here is a guide to stop it from crashing...
http://www.elitepvpers.de/forum/cabal-guides-templates/134184-guide-how-prevent-cabal-crashing.html

but, i think its deeper if u getting the blue screen of death

make sure u have the right drivers for ur vid card...

if all else fails reformat XD ..

Possible Solution No. 2:
(Not Recomended for non-expierienced PC troubleshooter)
Disclaimer: I will not be responsible for any damage cause to your PC. BE CAREFUL WITH THIS - SYSTEMS CAN BE DAMAGED

1. Open the registry editor. start->run-> regedit

2. go to
HKEY_LOCAL_MACHINE\SYSTEM\CurrentControlSet\Contro l\Session Manager\Memory Management

3. Double click on "PagedPoolSize"

4. Replace the existing value with the one of the three listed below using hexadecimal
//choose either one
0c000000 <---192mb
10000000 <---256mb
18000000 <---384mb

I did this, and i chose 256mb, seemed like it lasted longer, but still crashed before i could login.... Not sure if i wanna push it up too 384, this is a xp guide i think, he says its dangerous and may harm your computer...

I have vista... Dont think i wanna try this again unless i know what may happen... if doing this will void my warranty ect.

try this. its a very good program which shuts down unnecessary programa dn allows your games to run more smoothly
http://www.iobit.com/gamebooster.html