At anytime anyplace in this topic if im wrong lmk , im currently lvl 3
Im boosting vit till : 75 then all in str?
What skill should i boost?
Gears :
Armor =3rd tier scale (58 ee)
Weapon =3rd tier sword (50+ ee)
Charms = lvl 5 , 18 str , 200+ life other mods
Charms = lvl 5 , 17 str rand mods

the stats in your accessory slot do not work (only enhanced effect, thusly it should be a heal)
make sure your stats are in accordance with your weapon's ratio.
you are doing it right except that accessory charm