It's going to be hard since you are locked but:
Hey, if you need something let me know,
The main stuff you need is here:
http://ladderslasher.d2jsp.org/But the starting character best would be a Fighter. The gear you want is the following:
Axes or Swords - The reason for this is it can be used on multiple characters.
If you go with axes then you want more strength and a little bit less dex(85-100 dex for axes)
If you go with swords then you want the more dex ( more crits ^^ )
The armor: Try and get some leathers or scales or other armors ( except robes ) with EE(enhanced effect) for tanking,
Dex is a good factor because you can tank, do crits and have a nice average damage

The Charm should be strength or dex.
I would go with strength because the more strength = the more damage.
You want around 100-120 dex by 55, this will let you tank good and then you can also do some nice crits

If you need more detail in anything then let me know

Best Regards,
Joe