Are there any beginner guilds for a Fighter
Or can someone pls state what is the best eq etc,
and what should i stat etc
Im clueless

there are a lot of guides

Take a look here - Ladder Slasher Character Guide Collection 1.07
Read this one especially ---> The Fighter - by przy

You can experiment as you do more climbs but try this - stat your first 5-10 into vitality and the rest into strength. Find yourself a dex charm and ee [ enhanced effect ] weapon to help out in the catacombs and try to be the best catacomb team-mate you can possibly be and just keep clicking & playing ! As you get more into the game you might want to look into a hybrid caster / healer !

If you have any further questions feel free to post and take a look here as there is tons of really good information ! >> Ladder Slasher shrine <<