Weapons : Use swords if you can keep a whole set, if not, just look for items usable by Fighters that have enhanced effect on them.
Armor : Try to find chain mail, leather armor, or scale armor that has enhanced effect on it.
Charm : Look for a charm with about 20 - 30 dexterity on it.
Put all your points into strength. Go a'whackadoodle!
PM me with anymore questions.