no clue what to do and im lost wit what to do in Catacombs

For rogues, you're going to want to get an Enhanced effect weapon (choose whatever you like, just make sure you stick to one type). Also get EE scales and a strength charm. Pump all your points into dexterity (until you get around 80 - 90) and then the rest into Strength.

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i play rogue too

atm have alot dex 116 / str 40 / vit 39 / int 25

i have 23 lvl

any advice ?

You don't need that much dex at that level. Change some of your dex gear for str gear and you will kill faster or to an ee scale of ee leather which will extend your chains if you prefer to play in the Arena.

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